My Heartfelt thanks to everyone
Last week on my Virtual Assistant blog I wrote about the support VA communities provide through their forums. Ironic because only one day later our darling Miriam, aged 24, died whilst her father and I were away in the country. We rushed back home as soon as we heard.
I’m not yet ready to resurface to all the forums through LinkedIn, the VA communities and elsewhere. We have family with us from around the country and they’ll stay on for a few more days after Mirri’s funeral which will take place next Monday here in Melbourne, Australia. But I did want to let everyone know how much we’ve appreciated their prayers, emails of support, phone calls, cards, gifts and flowers from all over the world. You have overwhelmed me with your love and support and if ever I was in doubt of just how many people really connected and cared through internet forums and groups, I’m in doubt no longer.
Miriam was my stepdaughter and had been in my life since she was 5 years old. She was a big part of my life and she leaves a big hole. She was so vibrant, full of energy, lived life to the full, always pushed the limits - she was our tomboy who followed her dad around everywhere. She was his mate and they rode their mountain bikes together and did so much together. It will be a long time before the pain and ache begins to subside.
I’ve spent the past few days scanning over 100 photos of Miriam and putting together a movie clip set to a song her cousin wrote and performs on his CD, which was written for someone in his own life sometime ago.
If you’ve tried to get in touch with me, please bear with me for another week or so as I’ll be tending to my husband and our family but I will resurface and be back amongst you all again soon. Thank you all as you have shown me another reason why I love connecting with you all so much online. And knowing that I’m home already has been such a blessing - having a ‘job’ away from home would be very difficult.
It hadn’t occurred to me to switch off my webcam until a couple of months ago when someone called me unexpectedly on Skype (I usually schedule meetings) and I was suddenly faced with their picture and a smaller version of me and realised that I didn’t want people to see me as I am. I’ve now got the camera turned away from my seating position and it faces inwards to my shelving so if it is accidentally left on, I can adjust or switch it off without feeling embarrassed or unprepared.

